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BC's BACKLOT18 March 2012
 
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13.01
 
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Editor's Comment
Michael looks at:
Farewell, Shalom and Adieu


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Enough With The Political Finger-Pointing!

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Book Review
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Batya
Good times and bad times with Batya

Nathan Weissler
What my friendship with Michael Hanna-Fein meant to me


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An Interview with Paul Reiser

This And That
My Treasure Chest

Three Symbols of Passover

Stress

Lynn Ruth Miller
How we all became part of a bigger story

Mel Yahre
A few words for my friend

Eddy's Thoughts
Don't let life flutter by

The Bear Facts
How I found Michael

 

Shalom, Gang.

Itís like the end of an era for me. Probably for us all. Michaelís passing left me speechless. In the years I knew him he always seemed a little larger than life, an immortal of a fashion; like so many of my friends from the old days. To have known him was to love him. His character, his compassion and above all, that indefatigable sense of humor. I remember connecting with Michael while I was feeling particularly nostalgic, missing the old days at Grossingerís where I had performed in the 70s. In my research I FOUND AN ARTICLE Michael had written for the Megillah, and wrote him. That was, to quote Bogart, ďThe beginning of a beautiful friendship.Ē My God, the hours we spent swapping stories! We laughed, we cried, and we shared. It was glorious.

Then, when he asked me if Iíd write "Backlot", I was so farklempt, I nearly plotzed! Iíd never written a column before, but Michael nurtured me and guided me, giving me an education in ĎJournalism 101í that six years in college couldnít have matched. But that was how Michael rolled. Nothing was too big for him to tackle nor too small for him to care about. His generous spirit and his big heart were an inspiration to, I would argue, us all. I know I benefited immeasurably from knowing Michael. If I learned anything at all from Michael it was to never let things stop you. He was a fighter, albeit a gentle one. His weapons of choice were intelligence and charisma. With those attributes, one can overcome just about anything.

Iím not going to say ďGoodbyeĒ to Michael. Partly because I still havenít accepted his being gone, and partly because I know that any time Iím feeling inadequate or unsure, Iíll hear his voice urging me to press on. Iím sure heíll be watching over us all. I hope so; God, but I hope so.

Iíve missed writing my column for the Megillah, and Iíll probably always miss it. I was in grand company with all of you. It was an honor and a privilege. I wish everyone every good fortune in the future. And, I ask you all to keep Arnold in your prayers. As painful as Michaelís passing is for all of us, I canít begin to imagine what Arnold is enduring. Arnold, youíre a great man. You made someone we all loved very happy, and for that, you have my respect and affection. I especially wish for you, happiness and peace.

And now, for that last time, my Megillah familyÖ.Shalom, Gang!

 

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